Couples Who Do These 12 Things Keep the Romance Alive
There comes a time in every relationship when the romance starts to fizzle out. This doesn’t necessarily mean you and your partner don’t love each other anymore. Sometimes, life gets in the way of romance and dulls a relationship. But there are plenty of small gestures to keep the romance alive. Follow these romantic habits, and you’ll feel the difference instantly.
Plan Surprise Dates
Surprise dates are a great way to keep the romance alive. Your partner won’t be expecting the date, so spontaneous plans like these will sweep them off their feet and fall harder for you. It’s also a great way to give you and your partner some ‘me’ time, especially if you have kids or work long hours and can’t really bond as much as you used to.
Compliment Each Other Often
Sprinkling compliments here and there is a great way to make your partner feel loved and keep the spark alive. Compliments make us feel appreciated and boost our confidence, making us feel more comfortable in the relationship. Frequent compliments also set a high standard for the relationship. You and your partner will rotate romance, making you happier and more loved.
Cuddle Before Bed
This might sound odd, but the more time you spend cuddling with each other, the more you’ll feel loved. Cuddling releases oxytocin, so you and your partner feel happier and more in love. This means you’ll sleep through the night like a baby and wake up in the morning feeling more refreshed than ever.
Revisit Shared Memories
Nothing brings a couple more joy than revisiting shared memories. Whether it’s the heartfelt moment you first met your partner or the day you said I do, revisiting shared memories brings you closer and strengthens you and your partner. These memories also keep your relationship thriving because you appreciate your past and look forward to the future.
Cook Meals As A Team
Exploring food is a love language for many couples, but cooking together is one way to take things up a notch. You and your partner can rotate meals or cook together regularly. This way, you’ll split the chores equally and spend time exploring different cuisines and cultures, too. The more you cook together, the more you’ll appreciate each other’s skills and efforts.
Explore New Hobbies Together
Individual hobbies are great, but shared hobbies bring a couple closer. You and your partner could rotate weeks learning about each other’s hobbies to feel closer and bond. And if that doesn’t work out, you can always explore new avenues together and settle on a hobby that you can continue well into the future. Who knows, it could become a cute tradition.
Support Each Other’s Dreams
If you aren’t supportive of your partner’s dreams, you’re actively holding them back from reaching the stars, which could sabotage your relationship. Supporting each other’s dreams encourages couples to seek each other in moments of validation and even struggles. It helps them move forward as a couple and brings them together. Even if you find your partner’s dreams complex, always support them so they know they can lean on you.
Be Playful
Not everyone has a playful personality, but a romantic relationship can’t go on if you’re too serious. Don’t hesitate to let your guard down and joke around. You can crack jokes, tease your partner, and even annoy them, as long as it’s fun and light-hearted. Being playful fosters positive emotions and encourages a healthy relationship, so you’ll subconsciously keep the romance alive.
Stay Curious About Each Other
One of the most common reasons couples drift apart is because they no longer remain curious about each other. You might think you know your partner, but we all change with the years. Your partner’s old interests may not bring them as much joy as new ones, so it’s essential you keep learning about them. This advice isn’t only for you but for your partner, too.
Create A Shared Bucket List
We all have aspirations and goals, but a couple thrives when they balance individual and shared pursuits. Create a bucket list with your partner and discuss things you both want to achieve at some point in the future, whether it’s something menial like a trip or something much more significant like a house. Working together toward the bucket list and discussing plans boosts love and adoration.
Always Prioritize “Us” Time
It’s impossible to stay home with your partner 24/7, especially in this economy. But don’t let work and other commitments distract you from your most important one: your relationship. If you’re constantly flaking, you’re prioritizing other people over your partner. Always prioritize some ‘us’ time, even if it’s something as simple as grabbing a cup of coffee.
Respect Each Other’s Space
While we all want to stay with our partners at all times, you must realize that you and your partner are still individuals, deserving of individual space and privacy. If you frequently cross boundaries and cloud each other’s space, you’ll leave little room to breathe in the relationship. Respect each other’s space and privacy, and you’ll appreciate each other more.
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This article was first published at Rbitaliablog.
