15 Signs Your Partner Might Be Cheating On You
Sometimes, you might feel like something isn’t quite right in your relationship. Changes in your partner’s actions or mood can sometimes be small clues that things aren’t as they seem. These signs don’t always mean they’re cheating, but it’s important to notice if they start to pile up. From being more secretive to seeming distant, here are some warning signs that could mean your partner might not be staying loyal.
Note: The content of this article does not reflect the writer’s personal beliefs.
They Accuse You Of Cheating
It may seem paradoxical, but this is quite common. Your partner may get defensive and accuse you of the same thing he is doing right now. If lately, he’s often accused you of cheating even though you’ve done nothing wrong, it may be a red flag that he’s having an affair.
They Are Nicer All Of a Sudden
This may also seem paradoxical at first, but again, it is all due to guilt. Just think about it. What do you do when you feel bad for someone? You make sure to be there for them. You buy them chocolate, and you try to be as nice as possible. If you have received flowers lately, even though this has not happened in years, it may be because your partner feels guilty about his behavior.
They Suddenly Don’t Want You To Check Their Phones
Did your partner’s relationship with his smartphone suddenly change? Until a few weeks ago, he would easily forget his phone at home, but now it seems to be constantly either in his pocket or hands. This may be because he is talking to another woman and doesn’t want you to find out.
They Are More Secretive
Was your partner an open book, and then suddenly, he became incredibly secretive about his life? If lately, you think your spouse is being quite vague in his answers, for instance, not giving clear indications on where he is going and to do what, it may be because he’s meeting someone else.
They Lie
Women often can tell when their partner lies, especially after years together. Do you have the feeling your spouse is not telling you the truth? Or, even worse, do you have proof of this? It may be time to face the issue and honestly discuss your feelings. If things don’t improve, it may be time to move on.
They Are Unreachable
Are there certain times of the week when your partner’s phone is suspiciously off? Or they may answer your calls but be very hasty, as if in a rush to hang up and return to what they were doing. These may be the moments when he is with his lover.
Decreased Libido
Of course, having an affair often means a decreased libido towards your usual partner. Have you noticed any difference in the bedroom? Do you and your partner tend to have sex and another form of physical intimacy less frequently than usual?
They Take Care Of Themselves More
When starting to see a new partner, we often tend to pay more attention to how we look. Just think of your first dates. You probably wore your best clothes and put a great effort into looking your best. Does your partner look more attractive than usual? Unfortunately, it may not be to please you.
You No Longer Talk About Your Future
When was the last time you talked about the future together? Buying a house, starting a family, going on holiday in a tropical place… If you can’t remember, try initiating a conversation and see how your partner reacts. Unwillingness to talk about the future often means he no longer envisions one with you.
You Feel Something Is Off
Always trust your guts. If you feel something is off, it’s probably because it is. This doesn’t necessarily mean he is cheating, but talking about the issue may help you gain some clarity. Talk to your partner and share your feelings. What do you think has changed lately? Why do things feel off?
Different Schedule
A different schedule may also be a sign of cheating. This is because your partner may have agreed to see another woman during specific times of the week. If your spouse has been arriving back home at 4 p.m. every Wednesday and now arrives at 6 p.m., you have good reasons to be suspicious.
Their Friends Change, Too
Have you noticed a different behavior from his friends, too? This may be because they are aware of what’s going on and don’t feel fully comfortable in your presence, knowing he’s cheating on you. Try to see whether they seem more stressed around you.
Defensive Mode
Has your partner become overly defensive lately? Does he find crazy excuses even when you did not accuse them of anything? Does he quickly become angry when you ask innocuous questions about their daily activities? These are all signs that your partner may be hiding something from you.
Unexplained Expenses
Have you recently taken a close look at your joint bank account? If you cannot explain some expenses, you should investigate further. Also, remember that some partners may know that you check your daily expenses and may decide to use cash whenever they want to hide their purchases.
They’re Easily Irritated
Have you noticed your partner getting annoyed or snapping at you more often? If they’re suddenly more irritable, it could be a sign that something’s bothering them, maybe even guilt or stress from hiding something. When little things that never used to be a big deal start setting them off, it might mean there’s more going on under the surface.
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Hopefully, you read all these signs and realize that you have nothing to worry about. If this is the case, hurray! We are happy for you! So, why not celebrate your love with a nice dinner out? If you like the idea, here are a few tips on how to style a white dress for the perfect outfit.
This article was first published on the RB ITALIA Blog.
