16 Green Flags That Your Relationship Is Built to Last
It’s normal to wonder, “Are they the one?” when you’re in a relationship. We all know that relationships take a lot of effort, and when you’re with the right person, all that effort feels worth it. But if you’re putting in all that energy for someone who might not be right for you, it can feel really exhausting. That’s why many people look for clues to help them figure out if they’ve found the right match. If you’re feeling unsure, here are some clear signs that your relationship might be heading toward its own ‘happily ever after.’
You Just Know
Although it may seem oversimplistic, trusting your guts in love is often a good idea. The ultimate way to determine whether you’ve found ‘the right one’ is that feeling deep down inside you that tells you so. Of course, many other factors must be considered, so let’s dive into them too.
You Accept Them For Who They Are
We all have flaws. Finding the perfect partner is not about searching for the perfect man with no defects. It’s about looking for the person whose faults you can deal with. For instance, if planning for you is everything, you probably should stay away from incurable latecomers.
You Manage Conflict Well
So many of us think a lack of conflict is a good sign that your relationship will last forever. Wrong! Conflicts are part of all long-term relationships and cannot be avoided. Instead, you must focus on learning how to respectfully and constructively navigate disagreements.
You Can Talk About Everything
Think about it: is there anything you feel uncomfortable sharing with your partner? Or can you talk about everything without the fear of being judged? If you answered the second, you are probably in a healthy relationship that will – hopefully – last through time.
You’re Each Other’s Biggest Cheerleaders
If you’re both rooting for each other, no matter what, it’s a clear sign you’re in it for the long haul. Whether it’s celebrating the wins or being there during the tough times, having each other’s back is everything. That kind of unwavering support is what makes a love story last forever.
You Love His Family And Friends
Most people are just a mix of their closest friends and relatives. Just think about it. You probably spent so much time with them that you picked up some of their qualities and flaws. Do you detest all your partner’s relatives and friends? Then, it may not be the right relationship for you.
You Support Each Other
Every couple’s ultimate goal is “happily ever after,” and if you are each other’s biggest supporters, you are almost there. If you are there for each other through thick and thin, motivate each other, celebrate successes, or even go through challenges together, it means you’re in for years.
You Want To Improve Yourself
When we find ‘the one,’ we often feel the need to improve ourselves. Have you recently embraced healthier practices? Do you tend to pay more attention not only to the way you dress but also to your mental health? Chances are you’re on the right track to a long-lasting relationship.
You Have Common Goals
Did you ever discuss your life goals, specifically the ones you are supposed to share? For instance, do they want to have kids? Where would you like to live? Are you planning to travel the world 24/7 in the near future? These are all questions you should discuss to make sure you’re on the same page.
You Know How To Compromise
Finding your soul mate means that you will agree on plenty of stuff. But there still will be times when you will have different opinions. Maybe you want to head to Europe for your vacation, while he wants to explore South East Asia. Knowing how to compromise is key.
You Trust Each Other Blindly
Do you have a feeling your partner is lying about something? Or hiding something from you? Is he particularly secretive lately? You must trust each other blindly for a relationship to last through time. This is the only way to build a household in which everyone feels safe.
Everyone Approves
Do your relatives and friends approve of this relationship? Remember, these people know you best, so trust their judgment. If everyone you know doesn’t like your current partner, you may want to reconsider your relationship.
You Are Independent
Codependency kills all relationships. It’s easy to forget our needs at the beginning of a love story. While setting our hobbies aside for some time is ok, quitting all your favorite activities to be with your loved one 24/7 will eventually backfire.
Respect Is Always There
Do you respect each other at all times? Even when disagreeing on something or fighting? Congratulations! You’ve probably found the one! Does your partner tend to raise his voice at you and insult you whenever you are going through a tough time? It may be time to move on.
You’ve Found Your Best Friend
Do you feel like you’ve found a new best friend? Of course, no one will ever be able to replace your actual best friends! In the end, they were there long before your current partner and – chances are – will be there long after. However, if you feel you’ve found a new best friend, you’re probably on the right track.
You Are Vulnerable With Each Other
Can you be vulnerable with your partner? And can your partner be vulnerable with you? Sharing your innermost fears, worries, and concerns is a sign that you trust each other fully and feel one hundred percent comfortable with this person. Remember that we are all different when showing our vulnerability, meaning it may take longer for some people.
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Hopefully, after reading these tips, you can better understand whether your relationship is doomed or bound to last for decades. We hope for the latter! If so, why not celebrate with a lovely movie night? Here are a few outfit ideas to impress your partner.
This article was first published on the RB ITALIA Blog.
