16 Dating Disasters That Make You Appreciate Single Life
Dating can be pretty unexpected; either you get along or end up with bad luck. Sometimes, things seem fine at first, and you only notice the red flags later. From embarrassing first dates to shocking discoveries, people have had their fair share of terrible dating moments. Here are some of the craziest and worst dating stories that might make you laugh and teach you what to watch out for in the future.
Drunk behavior
You don’t know a person’s true colors until they get drunk. A date who drinks recklessly will only end up spilling their guts in your car. Some drunk people also become aggressive and demeaning on their first date and end up scaring the other person so they never meet up again.
Obsessed with hobbies
Some people make their hobbies a personality trait. Dating such people is horrible because they keep on talking about their hobby for the time you’re with them when they’re supposed to listen to your side as well. They don’t understand that you may have your own interests as well.
Inferiority complex
Imagine a first date where your potential partner berates your appearance because you turned out to be prettier or taller than them. This nightmarish situation is becoming increasingly common, especially with online dates where partners have unrealistic expectations of each other.
Being called exotic
Believe it or not, some people will date people of color because they romanticize their race and find them exotic. This is a clear attempt to justify their racism, but the worst part is that such people will double down when called out. They only care about your looks, not how they feel around you.
Getting high
You don’t know the true horror until you find your date lying on your bathroom floor because illegal substances knocked them out. Such experiences often happen when the other person doesn’t even know what’s going on. It’s always best to do your homework before you decide to go on a date.
Dine and dash
Immature people will always look for a way out when it’s their turn to pay, and they’re even willing to throw their first date under the bus. It’s happened to many people who had to foot the entire bill or were forced to dine and dash, too. It doesn’t only look unethical but also scares them away.
Political leanings
The worst part about going on a blind date is not knowing what your date is like. Too many people are shocked when their blind date spends time bashing certain groups and even races. They won’t just stop complaining about a particular political group and expect you to listen to their rants.
Surprising with kids
Dating as a single parent is tough, but some people take it a bit too far and refuse to tell their partners they have kids until it’s too late. Often, people will spend months with someone before revealing they are parents. Such an incident can cause the other person to lose trust in new relationships.
Sexual aggression
We’ve all dealt with partners that were too eager for action, but some can be too forward. Numerous people are coerced into sexual actions on the first date, and some even have to deal with a sexually aggressive partner for months. Such people are not really interested in dating long-term; they are just looking to pass the time.
Bringing a third partner
Imagine being super excited to go on your first date with someone you met on Tinder, only to end up seeing that person bring another partner. Well, some have experienced this, and we are just surprised by the audacity. On top of that, they expect you to be super cool with it.
Using Phone The Entire Time
Your date’s phone is constantly buzzing with notifications, and they can’t resist the urge to check in and respond to every message, leaving you feeling like you’re competing for their attention against their digital fan following. It also tells a lot about their priorities and how important your presence is to them at that moment.
The Selfie Queen/King
Your date is more interested in taking selfies than engaging in conversation with you. They constantly adjust their angles and filters to capture the perfect shot and even ask you to take some photos for them. They are also quick to post selfies on their socials. This can be such a huge turnoff for many people.
The Over-Sharer
Your date jumps straight into sharing personal stories as soon as you meet, making you feel like you’re in a therapy session. They spill intimate details about past relationships, family drama, and personal issues without any pause. It’s overwhelming and leaves no room for a normal, balanced conversation.
Absence Of Basic Manners
Having no table manners can be a huge turnoff, like chewing with mouth open and talking way too loudly. They keep interrupting you and don’t seem to know the basics of polite conversation. It’s embarrassing and makes the whole experience uncomfortable, making you not want to see them again.
Catfishing
He/she looks nothing like their online photos, leaving you feeling totally deceived. They used fake pictures, too many filters, and even false information to create a misleading profile. Meeting them in person is disappointing, making you question their honesty right from the start.
No Personal Space
They are extremely touchy-feely, invading personal space despite obvious discomfort. It feels like they don’t pick up on any of your cues to back off. The constant closeness can be overwhelming and make the whole date uncomfortable. This kind of experience can back you off from proceeding to another date.
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The article was inspired by discussions on Reddit and first appeared on Rbitaliablog.
