16 Mistakes to Avoid When Planning Your Dream Wedding
Planning a wedding can be a nightmare; you’re trying to do everything by the book to ensure you still get your dream wedding. If you want to avoid chaos and make things go smoothly, it helps to know which mistakes to avoid. A lot of couples forget to set a clear budget early on or don’t realize how much time good planning takes. Knowing these common slip-ups can save you a lot of headaches. Here are some wedding planning mistakes to look out for so you can enjoy your big day without the extra stress.
Ignoring Your Budget
The first thing you need to do is outline a budget. This might be tentative, but it’ll give you some ground to work on. Your budget will help finalize almost every decision you make, from vendors to showers and celebrations; if you don’t set a realistic budget, you’ll either collect debts to pay for the wedding or be unable to book anything.
Trying To Please Everyone
Many people want their wedding to be pleasant for everyone, including the guests. They’ll try to accommodate all guests’ preferences and follow their suggestions. While catering to all guests is admirable, it’s important to know when to step back and say no, particularly if you’re draining a lot of money.
DIY Disasters
We understand the need to save money and time but don’t cheap out on the vendors and planners. Trying to arrange things like decor, music, and similar things by yourself will only lead to stress on your special day. DIY weddings are also disastrous because you never know if the plan will work or if the people involved will pull out.
Ignoring Guest Accommodations
Don’t overlook guest accommodations; they can affect the joy of your day. While you might think you’re spending a lot on the wedding, remember to consider important guests. Those flying or driving in from out of town will need assistance. Consider travel arrangements and ensure your guests are comfortable.
Ignoring Vendor Contracts
Working with vendors is a natural part of a planned wedding, but you shouldn’t take it lightly. Every vendor comes with an ironclad contract, violating which could result in the termination of wedding favors. Keep an open communication channel with all vendors involved and run the contracts with a lawyer/advisor if possible.
Forgetting About Wedding Insurance
We all want our day to go picture-perfect, but even the most meticulously planned weddings can turn unexpectedly. You don’t want to be the bride or groom who cries about unexpected circumstances at your wedding, so it’s best to invest in wedding insurance to protect against unforeseen circumstances.
Ignoring Your Partner’s Input
Remember, the wedding isn’t only your day; it’s equally yours and your partner’s. Many partners are forced to ride shotgun on their own weddings, which not only creates problems because they’re not actively involved but also leads to resentment because their wedding is massively overshadowed by their partner’s choices.
Choosing A Venue Without Considering Capacity
Never settle on a venue until you have a definitive idea of how many guests will attend. It’s best to choose the venue based on a number that’s actually greater than your expected guest list. If you have some last-minute guests, your venue won’t be scrambling to arrange seating.
Overlooking The Importance Of Food
Not prioritizing quality food and drink can disappoint guests. This might sound shallow, but many guests will attend the wedding for food. Your guests will spend much of their day at your wedding and need sustenance. Not prioritizing food quality and quantity can lead to hungry and disappointed guests.
Rushing Through Vendor Selections
It’s easy to go with the first vendor you meet, especially when you’re in a hurry, but that can end up being a letdown later. Take your time to do some research, talk to a few different vendors, and check out reviews before deciding. This way, you’ll make sure you’re working with reliable vendors who really get what you want for your big day.
Overloading the Wedding Day with Events
You may think having more events like games, performances, or speeches on the wedding day would be more fun, but it can actually be overwhelming. Your guests or even you and your partner may feel tired, and the events may begin to lose their charm if they are stretched for too long. Instead, prioritize your guests’ comfort and limit events so there is enough time to relax for everyone.
Forgetting About the Weather
If you’re having an outdoor wedding, not thinking about the weather can bring some unexpected headaches. Look up the typical weather for that season and have a backup plan, like a tent or an indoor spot, just in case. Even small things, like having umbrellas or fans ready, can really help. A little planning means you’ll be set for a great day, rain or shine.
Not Getting A Wedding Coordinator
We all have that relative who isn’t a certified wedding coordinator but is always ready to take on the duty. While it’s tempting to cut the cost and get a coordinator you know (or skip it out altogether), skimping out on a wedding coordinator will only add to your stress. Wedding coordinators ensure everything goes smoothly so the lucky couple can relax and enjoy their day.
Not Considering Your Guests’ Comfort
It’s essential to consider seating arrangement and accessibility at your chosen venue. If you don’t, your guests who need such arrangements will feel like you’re singling them out or don’t care about them. Uncomfortable guests not only mar the day but not catering to them properly could lead to some family blowouts.
Not Doing a Hair and Makeup Trial
If you skip the hair and makeup trial, you might end up feeling stressed on your wedding day. What looks amazing in photos might not feel right on you. Doing a trial run helps you make sure you’re happy with your look, so there are no surprises when you’re getting ready to walk down the aisle. It’s worth the time to make sure everything feels just right!
Focusing Solely On The Wedding Day
It’s easy to get carried away with the wedding, but remember many things come after the ceremony. Don’t ignore the post-wedding parties, upcoming brunches, or the honeymoon; it’s important to plan each event carefully and properly so you don’t feel an ounce of regret after saying I do.
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This article was first published at Rbitaliablog.
