17 Signs Your Relationship Is Built to Last

A healthy relationship is about more than just loving each other — it’s about feeling free to be yourself without worrying about being judged. It’s built on things like respect, trust, and being there for each other. You don’t have to be together for a long time to have a good relationship. If the right things are in place, your connection will grow stronger. If you’re wondering how strong your relationship really is, here are some signs that show you and your partner have a healthy and happy bond.

Full Trust 

Do you trust your partner blindly? For instance, are you tempted to check his phone while he’s not there? Or is this something that never even crossed your mind? Trusting your partner fully is a sign that your relationship is on the right track. 

Good Communication

Disagreements are inevitable. How you navigate them is a good indicator of whether your relationship is successful. Do you have productive and respectful conversations even when arguing? Or do you tend to shout at each other? 

You Can Compromise

Compromising is key. The relationship is often at stake when one of the two partners can’t do so. Think about it. Can you and your partner find healthy compromises? Do you often find common ground, or does one of you always get his or her way? 

You Support Each Other

Here is another sign of a healthy relationship. You always support each other. Take a moment to ask yourself these questions: Are you aware of your partner’s goals? Is your partner aware of your goals? How do you support each other in achieving them? Do you always feel comfortable sharing your dreams and goals?

Your Friends Support The Relationship

If all your friends think you are a great match, it’s probably because you are. Your friends and relatives are the people who know you the most, so trust their judgment. This also means that if they don’t approve of your partner, it may be worth investigating whether they have a point. 

You Have Healthy Boundaries

Healthy boundaries are fundamental to building a love relationship. For instance, how do you define infidelity? Is it ok to follow people you find attractive on Instagram and other social media? Can you flirt at parties and events? Can people come to your house without you giving a heads-up to each other? Can you go on holiday alone? These are all questions that should be discussed. 

You Solve Conflicts Healthily

Conflicts are an unavoidable part of the relationship, but how you handle them makes all the difference. Couples who critically handle conflicts and accept their mistakes live happier than those who argue for the sake of point-scoring. If you and your partner address conflicts with empathy instead of mindless aggression, you two are an excellent match.

You Respect Each Other 

Respect should be at the base of every healthy relationship. Do you show appreciation whenever helping each other? Do you maintain a respectful attitude even during disagreements? Do you avoid accusing each other and making assumptions and instead opt for open and honest communication? These are all healthy signs of respect. 

The Past Is Past 

You both probably made mistakes in the past. This is normal and unavoidable. However, you need to let go and move on for your relationship to keep thriving. Only by forgiving your partner fully will you be able to continue loving each other. You may want to work on your forgiveness skills if you constantly discuss the past in every argument. 

You Can See Your Future Together 

Talking about the future and having shared goals are signs that your relationship is on the right track. Unfortunately, loving and respecting each other is not enough for long-term success. Do you both want to have children? Do you want to live in the same country? These are all questions that should be addressed. 

Your Independent From Each Other

Codependency is a serious issue affecting plenty of couples. Remember that you need to be a functional human outside of your relationship, too. If spending a week without your partner terrifies you, you have some work to do. 

You Can Talk About Everything 

Are there things you don’t want to share with your partner? For instance, you may be afraid of their judgment or that they may overreact. While this is normal to a certain extent, if you realize that it becomes the norm, it’s important to address the issue. 

You Know Each Other’s Love Language 

How do you express love? Through words of affirmation such as saying ‘I love you’ frequently? Or by spending quality time together? And what about your partner? Is it through little gifts? Or physical touch? Your love language doesn’t necessarily have to match, but knowing how your partner expresses love is crucial. 

You Just Know It

The truth is that despite all the signs, sometimes you don’t need anything to know that the person you shared your last months with is ‘the one’. Trust your guts, but practice caution in the meantime. While it’s okay to think you’ve found the right person for you even after a few months, don’t rush important decisions that you may one day regret, such as having children or getting married.

You Share Core Values

Of course, you and your partner don’t have to agree on everything. However, certain core values must be shared to ensure a happy relationship in the long run. Radical differences in religious, political, and moral ideas may harm your future, so discuss these early on.

You Know How To Fight

Disagreements are an unavoidable part of life. Knowing how to navigate them is key for your long-term relationship. Think of the last fight you had. How did it go? Did you manage to be respectful towards each other the whole time? Did you actively listen to each other? Did you try your best to see each other’s perspective?

You Celebrate Milestones

Taking time to celebrate important milestones together is essential for any relationship. From anniversaries to personal achievement, recognizing these moments and celebrating them really strengthens your relationship. These celebrations aren’t just about marking the calendar—they’re about showing how much your relationship means to both of you.

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Do you express your love for your spouse with tiny presents? Then we got a few ideas for you! Here is our ultimate guide for women of all tastes! You will surely find something to surprise your partner.

This article was first published on the RB ITALIA Blog.