16 Simple Ways to Keep the Spark Alive in Your Relationship
At times, it’s easy to mistake routine for a loss of spark in your relationship. All couples go through highs and lows, and sometimes all it takes is a little extra effort to bring back that feeling of closeness. If you’re feeling like things have become too predictable, don’t worry—small changes can make a big difference. Here are tried-and-true tips to rekindle the romance and remind your partner just how much they mean to you.
Note: The content of this article does not reflect the writer’s personal beliefs.
Talk About Your Issues
When was the last time you sat down to talk about your life, your dreams, your passions? You probably spent hours talking at the beginning of your relationship, so try to bring this habit back. Go to a café, order a nice cappuccino, and simply talk to each other.
Go On Holiday Together
There’s nothing a romantic trip to Paris cannot fix! You’re not a huge fan of big cities? Opt for a European town, from Plovdiv in Bulgaria to Matera in Italy. Do you prefer nature? Go hiking in your nearest natural park and spend a night in a glamping camp. Still not convinced? What about a relaxing weekend in a spa?
Break The Routine
Falling into the routine is almost unavoidable after years together. But this doesn’t mean you cannot change this. Join a photography course together, take dancing classes, or try out a cooking course in your area. Spending time in new activities together will help you form memories you will cherish forever.
Bring Romance Back
Romance always fades away with time. Whenever you realize this, simply bring it back. There are so many ways to surprise your partner. Buy some flowers, organize a weekend trip to a place you love, and create a playlist of your favorite songs; your imagination is your limit.
Show That You Need Him
Men love to know that you need their help. This doesn’t mean that you are not independent, but you simply trust their skills and knowledge on a certain topic or field. Value their experience and ask for their advice; this will help them feel loved and appreciated.
An Extra’ Thank You’ Go A Long Way
When was the last time you genuinely thanked your partner? Just because they are used to cooking dinner every evening, this doesn’t mean they no longer deserve a ‘thank you.’ If you haven’t done it in a while, leave a thank you note on their pillow with a brief message saying why you are so grateful to have them in your life.
Give Space
Codependency always leads to failure. Your partner needs time to be with his friends, develop his passions and hobbies, and time away from you. This may sound painful to some, but it’s important to realize that simply because your lover may want to spend less time with you, it doesn’t necessarily mean your relationship is failing.
Reconnect with Old Traditions
Take a moment to remember those little things you used to do together when your relationship was new. Whether it’s going back to that favorite restaurant you haven’t visited in ages or sharing an inside joke that always made you both laugh, revisiting these moments can help remind you why you fell for each other in the first place.
Value Your Independence
Just like your partner, you need time to be alone. Just because you are now in a relationship doesn’t mean you should no longer take care of yourself. Fill your days with activities you love. This will also make you more attractive to your partner. We all prefer people with interests and hobbies.
Level Up Your Wardrobe
Don’t underestimate an elegant outfit’s power over your partner. When did you last wear a sexy dress to impress your spouse? It’s time to go shopping and buy something new to level up your wardrobe. Check a few fashion magazines to get an idea of what’s in and out before heading to the nearest mall.
Bring Back Spontaneity
Embrace spontaneity, and your partner will soon fall in love with you again. Surprise him with little presents, such as his favorite dish for lunch. Plan last-minute trips to the sea, or go to the cinema without any plans and see what films you can watch once you’re there.
Initiate Contact
Is your partner the only one initiating intimate contact? Chances are he’s not feeling desired. Think about it. How would you feel if you were always the one initiating sex? Probably not great, right? Make sure to be the one to start from time to time.
Be Vulnerable
You cannot have love without vulnerability. Your partner should know you better than anyone else; you need to be an open book with him. Learn to be vulnerable with one another, and you will fall in love again. Is there something you have been afraid to talk about lately? It may be time to bring it up.
Go On Dates
Dating should not only be part of the beginning of a relationship. Even if you’ve been together for over ten years, try to spend a few evenings per year together in a nice restaurant wearing fancy clothes. This will remind you of your first dates while helping you create new, beautiful memories.
Flirt Often
When was the last time you flirted with your partner? Just because you are now in a long-term relationship, it doesn’t mean you should stop flirting with each other. A cheeky joke, a provocative look, or an extra laugh at dinner to one of his silly jokes may help you bring extra positivity and playfulness into your relationship.
Celebrate Milestones Together
Whether it’s your anniversary or just a small win, taking the time to celebrate milestones together can really bring you closer. It’s all about recognizing and appreciating the journey you’re on as a couple. Celebrating these moments shows that you cherish the time you’ve spent together and are looking forward to what’s ahead.
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This article was first published on the RB ITALIA Blog.
